The things people say…Grrr

I think this is going to go on forever now I have a baby…

Whilst Pregnant and suffering from hyperemesis gravidarium people constantly suggested to me trying ginger stuff – I know they were only trying to help, but it got to the stage I was having to not even try and say oh thanks I have tried that for fear of being very sarcastic back.

Then with a newborn people are telling you, don’t hold them too much, sleep when they sleep, breast is best, trust your instincts…blah blah blah…

And now my latest driving me crazy advice and comments – I am returning to work full time – and so I get from anyone and everyone, “oh that is going to be hard on you” – DO YOU REALLY THINK I DON’T BLOODY WELL KNOW THAT !!

I actually have a speech now that I repeat that requires no emotion or thought “oh I am not worried about Ben at all, he loves other children it will do him good blah blah blah, me, oh I’ll be fine, it will be good to mix with other adults again (insert a little chuckle here)”

What I really want to say is, yes it is going to be really terrible leaving my baby that I have been with for nearly 24/7 since he was born, I really don’t want to go back to work but we actually want to eat something other than bread and water and if Ben actually wants to wear something apart from newspaper then I have to go back to work…

OK rant over


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